 Wife Loved This Book--Coached Me With It |
| Reviewer: Greg Speed, SW USA |
| My wife is usually completely averse to reading anything like this. She loves romance novels and reads them all the time. When I brought this book home, she just wrinkled her nose at it, and said "Oh no, not another one of those sex books." I just left it in the drawer of the reading area table, where I could slowly read it, a chapter at a time. After a few days while I was in the office working, she came in with the book in her hand and a look of discovery and pleasure on her face. She had given the book a chance after all, and had not only read it through, but had used a purple hiliter marker to identify all the parts that she felt really spoke to her and best expressed her desires for me to put into practice in our lives. She focused on the parts about setting the scene, or mood, and about intimate communication, and about "reading" your partner to achieve extraordinary enjoyment. We both now feel this book is one of the very best books ever written about a man truly relating to his partner and becoming adept at assisting her to truly reach her potential pleasure peaks. You will benefit greatly from this book, as we did. Even if you think you are an expert now, this book will give you a better instinct and a higher level of appreciation for your partner. |
Now THIS is interesting
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| Reviewer: Bill Cunningham, New York |
A friend of mine knows the author and suggested that sight-unseen I'd probably be amused. I'm more than amused, I'm sort-of amazed. I have to admit, this book cuts new ground. I've never seen a sex techniques book that isn't about intercourse. This one is about everything except intercourse. Rubel really lays it out there. He gives very detailed descriptions about fingering techniques, licking techniques, and how to use inside and outside vibrators to help the lady reach outrageous orgasms.
I began this book a bit skeptically, but decided to go ahead and try some of this stuff on my wife. Ahem. Ah... You might want to try some, too. There's a number of techniqes in here that I must admit, I didn't know. Also, quite a bit of this material is about setting the stage in your home in order to put your lady in the frame of mind to have a really exceptional sexy evening.
Interesting book and one that my wife is going to recommend to her friends.
Frankly, that was a surprise. |
A Must Read Book For Lovers!
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| Reviewer: Jobeth Whatley-Devereaux, Bossier City, LA USA |
I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Rubel at a Fetish Convention in Dallas, Tx recently. This man MUST be a woman trapped in a man's body! His book is easy to read without pages of boring medical jargon. It explains simply, but in exquistite detail, how to utilize a woman's natural anatomy to enhance a couple's lovemaking WAAAAY above and beyond the usual. He also explains how to use toys to create different sensations for the woman. Also included, but not limited to, are sections about the uses of lubes, oral pleasure, and how to "ramp up" the sexual experience. I would recommend this book to single men AND women, as well as couples seeking to expland their knowledge in the art of lovemaking.
To say that this book can add *sizzle* to a couples lovemaking is a vast understatement!!!!! This is NOT some kind of "nasty porno", but a very tastefully written book that I would be proud to give to my own daughter and her husband. Women....learn more about your own body! Men...READ THIS! You will not be disappointed by the results from your partner if you apply what is learned from this excellent book!!! |
Good venture into a female focused sex book
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| Reviewer: TammyJo Eckhart, Bloomington, Indiana United States |
| While there are things I would like to see expanded in this book and a poor choice of Wikipedia for some of the information, it is a good book that looks at sex as something far more than penis-vagina intercourse. The focus of this book is on making sexual intimacy primarily about female pleasure with the idea that penetration then may follow and indeed sexual encounters increase when the woman is very well pleased with her partner (male or female). The language of the book is more appealing for men I strongly suspect but then men are the target audience. As long as the reader does not see the book as a step by step list of activities he must do and considers the questions and underlining goals, he'll get good use of the book. Sadly as a scholar the use of Wikipedia instead of peer reviewed studies of human sexuality or anatomy automatically knocks off a star for me in the review. |
Ludicrously Bad
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| Reviewer: Isaac Z. Schlueter, Sunnyvale, CA USA |
Ah, where to begin...
Perhaps the, first thing that, bothered me was, the horrible, use of commas, punctuating completely, random spots, in many, sentences. My high school english teacher would have left red ink all OVER this writing.
A lack of understanding of the basics of english grammar is not Rubel's worse offense against the craft of writing. In many chapters, he starts almost every paragraph with sentences like "But before we get to that...", "First, I want to tell you about...", "Before I go into that...". After several such paragraphs, the reader is met with "And in conclusion...". It had a basic structure of, "Before, before, before, after", with no middle, often repeating paragraphs and sentences almost verbatim.
It reads like a rough draft by a high school student. It's painful. I don't know what college Dr. Rubel got his PhD from. I wonder if they require Comp 101 as part of their curriculum.
But enough of the presentation, what of the content?
Using Wikipedia as a source is not terrible for casual research, or for commentary on the general current thinking about a topic. The first time I saw "according to Wikipedia...", I thought that this was Rubel's intent. However, it quickly became apparent that he got pretty much ALL of his information from the Wikipedia sex articles. I've read them. They're great. You should read them. You'll get almost all the information that this book has to offer, and much more, with citations and continual quality control.
That's not to say that there isn't independent research involved in this book! The author goes to great lengths to repeatedly impress upon the reader that he's been with many, MANY women, and has brought all or most of them to unparalleled heights of ecstasy, complete with ejaculation and sobbing and trance-like transcendent states. I got douche chills. Despite "squirts" being mentioned in the title, he spends significantly more time writing in detail about his favorite fetish, erotic shaving.
The title of this book should be "Robert Rubel is Great in Bed and Erotic Shaving is Hot."
OK, so let's say you skim past the erotic shaving, and forgive the lack of writing ability or scholarship. There are some fairly good tips in here, but many of them are simply boneheadedly obvious. The book claims that it is "not for amateurs", but rather for "those who already have a good sex life", and want to take it to the next level. However, all of his suggestions basically boil down to "pay attention to your partner's needs". If you're not an amateur, and you already have a good sex life, and you're the type of person who would buy a book on the topic, I'm willing to bet that you will learn nothing from this book.
Actually, that's not quite true. You'll learn that Robert Rubel is great in bed, and that erotic shaving is hot.
This just might be the worst book I've ever picked up. I only give it one star because that is the lowest possible rating. Save your money, and just read Wikipedia yourself. |
Finally, a Woman's Guide to Sexual Pleasure!
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| Reviewer: Karen Marie Cupp, Austin, TX |
| Yes, he wrote it for the men. No, I'm not sure they'd read it. However, Squirms, Screams and Squirts is the perfect handbook to teach a woman about her own body, what pleases her and how to communicate her new-found desires to the man interested in pleasing her. It's even fun to read aloud with that special someone! |
Every Woman Should Read This Book.......
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| Reviewer: Scarlett Winter, Hackensack, NJ USA |
My sexual journey in life as a woman has been one of self-exploration, reading and then experimentation, a path which few women ever take. Most men don't get to learn women's bodies because the majority of women don't know what to show them except their vibrators (which I will not use)..........I thought I was quite educated on the subject, but at the tender age of 54, I am not ashamed to say that I learned amazing things from this book..
I have just received an invitation to speak in front of a group of young women about female sensuality, eroticism and sexual techniques. Only your book will be offered at this workshop which will be presented as one of the most important books that they will ever read on the subject of her body and the many possibilities for pleasure besides intercourse.
So thanks for loving women enough to have taken the time to understand each one's unique needs (even when they don't) and to publish this vital information in a very detailed, well-researched and comprehensive tome that shows the ultimate respect for women. Hats off to you! I even ordered one signed copy of your book to keep in anticipation of my next lover......It will be MANDATORY READING....
Signed, Dominique |
No big deal
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| Reviewer: Grumpy Middle aged Man, Montana |
I have to admit I was somewhat disappointed in this and very pleased at the same time. When it arrived, with other books I should mention, my wife took the tried and true stance, similar to the past 20 years, of "not again". She did not want to even look at the books. However, this book is designed on how to please the woman only and directed entirely to her pleasure. Which I must say is 99% of the way it should be anyway. So, my wife thought I should read this book only and return the others. I read it and was disappointed a little. I got 75% of the way through before it began to teach me anything I did not already know and I realy don't know anything.
I did like the chapter on shaving very much. In fact for the last few years I have been shaving my own face with the old shaving cream and brush and can attest to the closeness of the shave and it is best for sensitive skin, but I digress. I think only 2 of the 12 or 13 chapters had any information that was useful, but Oh how useful they were. I was able to try something new one evening and she said "did you get that from the book?" With a grin on her face and a shortness of breath not noticed in a few years.
I of coarse gave all the credit to the book. She then thought we should read it together and look at the other books as well. So, even though I think only 2 chapters had anything new they have served both of us old married folk well and that would be why it gets 5 stars. Not because I learned stuff from start to end, but because the book in general did what I was hoping for, renewed some fire into a couple middle aged, slightly pudgy, people who needed a spark. |
Wealth of very interesting information
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| Reviewer: Andy Johnson, San Diego, CA |
I was looking at sex techniques books and stumbled on this one. I decided to buy this book after reading all the rave reviews. I'll now join that group.
The detail that Rubel provides is really helpful. It's also helpful that he takes you to a certain point and then reminds you that you have to improvise based on your own style of sex. I appreciate that he never suggests that his way is the right/only way. Very open minded. Very easy to read.
I'm also surprised and impressed about all the tips he gives men about how women think about sex and some of their fears. I'd never thought about any of that. Now I pay attention to what's going on during the evening before I want to be amorous with my wife.
I'd never thought much about these kinds of psychological and sexual techniques. I just learned sex by doing it. My wife immediately noticed that I was doing something really different in bed. She's now reading the book.
What was awkward was explaining to her why I had such a book in the first place.
This book has really helped to bring sex alive again in my 28-year marriage. Now we're talking about sex -- what a surprise! |
Eloquent & exquisite
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| Reviewer: Margaret Yockers, |
An enlightening and expansive perspective for male or female readers. The sensativity and integrity of the writer are evident. The intention is to create a fun, relaxing and satisfying experience for both participants. The friends I have gifted with this book are thrilled and have shared it with their friends.
Margaret |
Fabulous!
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| Reviewer: Helen Leigh, |
| my partner and i read this book together - we laughed, cried and then put the book down and tried out some of kim and mark's tips. FABULOUS results! i really liked the style in which the book was written - open, honest, clear and unblaming - refreshing to say the least. thank you! our love life has taken a sharp turn for the better. this book really does live up to its title! i also recommend Orgasm during Intercourse: Stop Faking It and Start Achieving Mind-Blowing Orgasms |
Great book! Buying copies as gifts!
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| Reviewer: Carol Reynolds, |
Fantastic and easy read!
I have several sex books and the very informative material in this book was not in any book I have ever read. I read it out loud to my husband and he is very grateful for the additional education and tips that have turned his already superior performance to outstanding in all the areas worth rating!!!
Don't miss this or the pleasure of reading it out loud.
I never review anything but this was well worth the time to read and the time to review---- |
The Secret is out.....
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| Reviewer: Eleanor D'Anjou, |
The Secret is out.....
At long last, a book that dares to print the Truth.
From its precise medical illustrations to its explicit techniques discussion, you'll know exactly what to do - and where and when.
Re-learn you're A, B, Cs... Excuse me, the A, G, Us of female sexual anatomy, and have fun while you're doing it.
My lover has tried many of these techniques on me with amazing results. I've had other lovers over the years and without exception, NONE of them knew about these techniques. It's time for great sex to come out of the closet.
I've been a nurse for years and they never told us about this in nursing school. I had no idea females could ejaculate or that there was any such thing as these erogenous zones.
Ladies, reclaim your bodies by learning about your own anatomy and encourage your lovers to learn too. It's your gift to yourself.
This book is the key to Eden rediscovered.
Enjoy!
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Sorry, I thought this was a dud
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| Reviewer: sarx2, dallas |
| I bought this as a gift for my husband . I thumbed thru but my husband read it. Sorry but any tips in here were things we already knew did or had heard about. Not very much on female ejaculation as the title suggests. No offense to anyone but I guess it's all about "what you know and who you blow"!!! We will continue on our search for erotic info. |
Different folks, different opinion
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| Reviewer: The Judge, Texas, USA |
Having heard of this authors work, I cruised the WEB looking for some of his work and came across this edition.
I read the reviews and with the exception of the banality of Isaac, (obviously this character needs counseling), I found that everyone enjoyed the book, so I decided "I'm in for one".
After perusing it, I found it did in fact open up interesting areas of discussion. Is it the equivalent of a masterpiece? Well perhaps not, but it accomplishes what the author sets out to do, and does it in an entertaining way, opening the door to further discussion.
Dr Rubel has obviously spent a great deal of time on research and breaking down a potentially delicate subject into bite size pieces and at the same time made it entertaining as well. Having read it, I think it's certainly justified picking up his other works to see his thoughts and suggestions on other subjects.
So as the heading says, "different folks, different opinions". Considering how far one of the reviewers stretched to knock this work, and it's author, and yet everyone else liked it... I consider the problem isn't with the work, the subject or the author, maybe there was some reason just one person wanted to take a childish jab at Dr. Rubel.
I liked it... as you will.. |
C'mon Feel The Noise...
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| Reviewer: Tim Brough, Springfield, PA United States |
I've reviewed other books by Dr Robert Rubel (including his terrific Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice), as he's an acquaintance of mine. We often attend events as presenters and vendors, and I've always been impressed by his knowledge and openness. As with his other books, this one is extremely clearly written, easy to read and very informative - and I'm gay, so reading this was more an educational/technical exercise for me. But I did recently promise to give this particular book a read, and was impressed by it.
I found "Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex" to be different than what I would've expected. While Dr Rubel certainly offers incredibly detailed ideas for a range of non-intercourse arousal techniques, I particularly enjoyed his ideas about the psychology of setting up romantic evenings to create an intimate mood. His descriptions are so clear that they are easy to adapt to your own personality and style. I would say that this is an outstanding book both for men - and for women, who can use it to coach their guys.
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A must read
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| Reviewer: J. M. Black, Western NY |
I had the extreme pleasure and good fortune to accidentally discover Squirms, Screams and Squirts.
The information comes from personal experience, experimentation, and cross-reference from other cited resources. Lots of good info on what to touch, when and why. Diagrams and well done illustrations locate mysterious hot buttons. There are many ways to explore sexuality other than intercourse and orgasm as the ultimate goal. It acccurately describes women's desires and clearly correlates the emotional and "events of the day" prior to lovemaking that are all part of a woman's sexual makeup. It illustrates concepts without implications of ignorance. There is a respectful almost worshipful tone toward women that results in full arousal and total submission to the ultimatelover.
Among many things, I found some men are unaware that all this lies under the surface and is there waiting to discover and realized I'm blessed to be married to a man that already understands the beauty of making love to a woman. It's an informative, scientific, yet delightful and very accurate description in the art of pleasing women.
Thanks Dr. Rubel for your contribution and a truly insightful guide to the art of great sex. |
Gentlemen, Take Note!
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| Reviewer: Joanne C. Gaddy, Chicago, Illinois, USA |
| Robert Rubel provides solid information, suggestions, and instructions for turning a routine sexual encounter into a gourmet event. Aside from the specific information on sexual techniques, Dr. Rubel's advice about setting the mood and communicating with your partner is right on. I highly recommend this book for any man who is willing to devote some time and energy to enhancing his lady's sexual pleasure...and thereby his own! Talk about a win-win! |
Ordered for my 18 year old son.
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| Reviewer: G. Haswell, San Antonio, Texas United States |
I ordered a copy of this book for my son when he turned 18. I think this is his and his friends favorite book at this time. He has told me his friends said it was amazing and a life saver.
I can recommend this book for all ages and experience levels. |
Reviewing Squirms, Screams and Squirts
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| Reviewer: Paul B. Range, |
| I recently bought Dr. Rubels book on Squirms, Screams and Squirts and was amazed at the intensity of my girlfriends orgasams. Not only did she squirt and wet down the entire center of the bed but her orgasmic screams were actually intensified. Written so anyone can achieve these results in minimum amount of time with women who had never squirted before. Women who can't squirt need to read this book and insure their partners read it as well. All the squirting and screaming intensified my orgasm as well. Paul |
Good
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| Reviewer: Lucy Loo, Australia |
| This book is a very good read for working on your sex life and learning new things! Its very detailed and like a science lesson at times but all good to know! |
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