 The truth, in a nutshell. |
| Reviewer: Jessica Goodall, |
| I can see why others might not like this book, but, to me, it was about hearing the truth and then listening to it. So, I overlooked all that other stuff and just read what this author has to say and he's saying this: Stop treating yourself bad. That's what I got from this book and I am so glad I read it. The message can hurt, but keeping up the charade can be more damanging on down the line. Another one with good truths: Man Magnet: How to Be the Best Woman You Can Be in Order to Get the Best Man-A Guide To Dating (Revised Edition). |
Buy it used if at all
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| Reviewer: Celia Caleb, Mosul, Iraq |
| I purchased this book because of the title. Thank God I didn't spend the money on a hard cover book. The organization was horrible, it was all over the place and confusing. I won't even get into the grammar and typos etc. That annoys me to no end. I didn't feel like I got anything out of reading the book. Yeah yeah, he was a dog who found God and changed his life. Still, there are much better books on relationships out there. Don't waste your money on this one. Mr. Boom, please don't write any more books until you learn how to write or hire an editor who knows his job. |
I was highly disappointed
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| Reviewer: Avid Reader, Brooklyn, NY USA |
| The only reason I purchased this book was because I heard this particular author on the radio giving great advice to female callers concerning their relationships. If this book was written as well as he speaks this book WOULD have been a great read. I found nothing thought provoking in this book what so ever. A lot of his thoughts were outdated and he seriously needed a spell check or fire his editor. The typo's in this book are horrendous leaving me to wonder how it got published in the first place. Big boom should stick to public speaking. He's a far better speaker then he'll ever be at writing. |
A waste of time and money
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| Reviewer: Tricia, Stone Mountain, GA |
Big Boom's "If you want closure in your relationship, Start with your legs" was exactly what I expected, a pointless commentary about what women should do to get a man. I knew that this book would not have any substance after reading the first few pages. The book is too choppy, his points are over the place. He contradicts himself throughout the book and is virtually saying the same thing over and over again.
Just because you are a "reformed pimp" doesn't make you an expert on relationships. Big Boom is fooling himself and readers if he thinks that his book is the resource that a woman needs to find a meaningful relationship, as he has claimed that he has.
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Time and Money WASTED!!!!
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| Reviewer: Book Smart, |
| Like many others, I saw this book in the store and decided to see what a brotha had to say. I understand that Mr. Boom has turned his life around and wants to inform women about the pitfalls of relationships, but I thought that it was a little over the top. This book is just a national confession of all the tricks and the games that he has played with women. In certain areas of the book, it sounded like he was bragging. After the first few chapters, I thought it was a waste of time, but I continued to read to see if he really had something interesting to say. Unfortunately, that never happened. If you are looking for some good advice, start with ANOTHER BOOK! This is a waste of time and money! |
not impressed
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| Reviewer: Miss Chu, |
This book which is to inform women on the perils of
making bad choices in regards to men, delivered by
a Born again former misogynist and pimp is weak.
The grammar is poor and many themes are constantly repeated
to fill in for lack of information and or insight into
male/female relationships which are deeply complex. Many cliches
and self help chants are used in place of deeply needed spiritual and expert advice. When not speaking in cliched tones The author goes on and on with shameless self-promotion. Ladies not women (as quoted by The author)who are in serious need of Male dogdom insight should look no further than The author. One thing this book makes clear is the author is a man you pray you do not run into! |
not worth buying
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| Reviewer: Arlene A. Dennis, Milwaukee, Wi |
| i was in walmart one day and this book caught my eye by the title, so i bought it. i wished i would have checked online first. IT is not worth the moneya t all. Mr.boom keeps repeating the same thing over and over and it is very unorganized. alot of the things are common sense, like don't give up the goods to soon, or get to know a man first b/f you bring them aroungd the kids. Not worth it |
Keep your money honey
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| Reviewer: Charles A. Hall, |
| Big Boom said everything he had to say in the title of the book. The rest of the book looks good on the outside, but is very empty on new revelation. Poor editing, repeating statements, rambling on from tangent to tangent. Take your $23.00 and carry a little old lady to Starbucks, and get the same information, plus, you will be doing a good deed. |
Knowing Men, 101? (3 rating)
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| Reviewer: Angelia Menchan, Florida |
If You Want Closure in Your Relationships Start with Your Legs by The Big Boom is certainly a catchy title. When I saw the title I was interested in reading it, convinced there would be something new. There was nothing new or different; most of the subjects that Mr. Boom covered were the messages that mothers and grandmothers have been passed down for years. Messages such as keep your business to yourself, don't sell yourself short and certainly to keep your legs closed until you are sure you are valued by your partner. What made this different is that the book was written by a self-professed former ladies' man who is now happily married. Mr. Boom was once a bodyguard, most notably for Steve Harvey and has had his share of relationships.
Some of the messages are tried and true ones. However he presents them as short topics with a few sentences explaining his viewpoints. The book is filled with titles and a few sentences of what he feels are the answers to why relationships are not working between men and women. I found them to be more a do as I say, not as I have done message. In many ways, it read as though women are responsible for men's behavior and if they would simply follow his advice all would be right with relationships.
If You Want Closure in Your Relationships Start with Your Legs would be a recommended read for those in need of a simple refresher course on what they were taught as youngsters. It may even serve as a wake-up call for women interested in one man's perspective.
Angelia Menchan
APOOO BookClub
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Not very informative
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| Reviewer: K. Palmer, |
| This book was not all it was hyped up to be, it was all over the place and didn't really offer any insider advice from a mans perpective beyound what your common sense already tells you. seems like just a used to be no good man reminiscing on his past b4 he got himself together. I would definately not recommend |
Don't Trip... Boom Still Has a Ways To Go!
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| Reviewer: Andrea T. Payne, Dix Hills, NY United States |
I think that if Big Boom fires his current editor and does a reprint with a few minor revisions, it would truly be a great read. While Big Boom does openly forewarn readers that he lacks formal education, I fault the editor for allowing the vast number of the grammatical and typographical errors that are in the final edition. It often made it difficult to understand and I found myself re-reading several paragraphs because there were glaring errors that made the text confusing to follow at times.
Overall, I was entertained and enlightened to a certain extent by Big Boom's advice. His `tell-it-like-it-is' approach was refreshing. I found that a lot of his advice was bold, realistic and practical, in spite of the fact that it may not be what some female readers would like to hear. I don't know whether humor was intentionally incorporated in this book, but I found myself laughing at some of his personal anecdotes and even some of his `phraseology.' I too was a little confused at some repetitive phrases/statements. I could not tell whether this was done intentionally for emphasis or like another reviewer pointed out as a "filler" simply because he lacked anything new or pertinent to add. Aside from the poor editing, it is an easy read. I appreciated the various websites he gave at the end, although I wasn't clear on why he included children's websites in the end, unless he wanted to include something for single mothers; but the information was useful nonetheless.
I also got confused with the questionnaire at the end because it starts off as "Questions to Ask Men" and somewhere down the line, the questions become self reflection questions for the reader. I would recommend this book to young girls in high school or college who may not have a male influence around them, as it will give them insight into the games many men play on women and teach them how to avoid the various traps the `playas' set for them and perhaps save them from abusive situations.
I agree with other comments that Big Boom is a better speaker than writer, but I do like his raw honesty and "Keepin it real" approach. He doesn't sugarcoat anything and admits he still has a way to go. Overall, this was not a horrible book and I did actually find a few things in it (especially about the male psyche) that were helpful to me.
While, others mention that the book is full of shameless self promotion, I can overlook that because as a new writer and 'unknown' in the literary world, it really is necessary for his success as an author, particularly as an author of a self help book. It was imperative for him to define to potential readers what qualifies him to speak on this issue and what his experience in this area is; and he does that. I'm also proud of the fact that he acknowledges his mistakes in the past and resolves to continue to make positive changes in his life, particularly as it relates to his daughter.
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Too much babble
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| Reviewer: Angela Baskin, Harvest, AL |
| This book was disappointing. It seems to address women who have low self esteem, several "baby daddys", unemployed and loose. These are the type of women who wouldn't have purchased this book to begin with...they typically don't read. It's sad to know there are so many women in the categories mentioned above who were preyed upon by this man. This book isn't relevant to educated, employed, indepent women who may have wanted to use it as a reference or teaching tool to pass along to our "little" sisters. I certainly didn't. |
Okay, but not worth the price
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| Reviewer: Romantic Movie Buff, Long Island, NY, USA |
| I have this book and I also went to a Book Signing of this book where the author had a great talk session with the woman there, about what was in the book and life with men in general. He schooled us good. Let me start off on a positive note first. Big Boom truly lives up to his name. He is a real big guy. Is a bodyguard for celebrities, mainly working for Steve Harvey. Boom is a much better speaker than he is author. He states that he has no formal education, which may be true, but you can't tell it in person, only with the book that has a awful lot of type O's and the speech in the book is not that great. Someone needed to take the time to correct mistakes in the book but other than that, it does school women on how men play them and what they are doing to enable them to play them. Boom tells woman basically what your Momma, if you had a good one, always taught. But if you didn't have a good Momma or an older brother,this book is filled with some helpful hints. The book is heavy and very glossy, but it still isn't worth 23.00 bucks. Hopefully, it will be in paperback so maybe someone won't mind paying a little less for a lot of type O'S. |
Helpful, But Could Use Improvements...
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| Reviewer: A. Rogers, North Carolina, USA |
I, like many others, purchased this book based on the recommendation of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I have always liked the common sense advice that Steve dishes out and his recommednations are usually on point.
I purchased the book the day a relationship I was in ended. I really needed to find out what happened and what went wrong. I read the book in 2 days. Here are my observations
* the writing started repeating itself, but it did help reinforce some of the points in the book.
*For me, it turned the mirror on myself and let me see who I actually was and can be.
*Some of the experiences I couldn't relate to, so I either skimmed or skipped those sections all together.
*It needed some serious editing help.
*I think this is a good catalyst for his public speaking persona, but I don't know that he should necessarily continue writing. He should consider being a relationship coach and/or public speaker.
*I do like the common sense advice he gives. It adds credibility to him actually knowing "the game". I'd much rather hear advice from someone who has been there and done that, than someone with a PhD whose only experience was gained through interviews.
As with any self-help book, you have to be aware and be able to decipher the advice that pertains to you from the advice that doesn't. I was able to do that, so the book wasn't that bad for me. Over the past 6-8 months I have learned a lot from Steve Harvey and now from Mr. Boom. |
Hell to the NO
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| Reviewer: Toni, New York |
If you were Whitney and you were dating Bobby, then I can see how you would find this book helpful. However, if you're a college educated female with more than a high school education then walk-on-by.
To start, the book title purports to be a book for females, when it's actually a book for men. Mr. Boom basically list all the negative things that been said about females for generations and tell us to just stop, stop doing it. There is no introduction to the topic, no understanding, no conclusion other than "quit doing it".
For example, his topic about women who talk about their relationship with their girlfriends. The author states that women need to STOP telling their girlfriends everything because it's usually the girlfriend with no man that's giving them the advice and that this is what ruins your relationship. This from the man who purports to know and understand women. Now if he were an author he would have said (and wrote):
"I know that women tend to talk and that's the way you communication the way you bond, you grandmother did it as she was cooking with you and your sisters in the kitchen, you do it with your girlfriends at lunch, but you have to know they are somethings you will need to workout for yourself, ask for advice but listen to your heart and take the situation from every angle." <-- BUT he didn't say that, he took 6 sentences to sum up such a topic and that's all the book is. A major chapter, 5 sub-heading and 6 sentences to explain each sub-heading, this is our advice. hhhmmmm, as if life was that easy. (check the table of contents, some chapters are 6 pages long)
I guess Mr. Boom is still a chauvinist, fist trying to pass himself off as a man and now as an author WHO understands women. I'm surprise he didn't tell women to stop wearing mini skirts, because with clothing like that you're just asking to be raped. As if men are raging dogs who can't control themselves, because with this statement, you're saying - just - that . . .
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Good eye opener 4 us Ladies
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| Reviewer: D. Walker, NY USA |
| This was a good eye opener for women out there. I purchased this book based on The Steve Harvey Show, Steve did a wonderful job promoting the book. I personal found out my own faults why I'm always getting played from men out there. I am now able to sniff nonsense and get rid of it immediately. Thanks again to Steve Harvey for promoting this book on his radio show. |
Ummmmm....
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| Reviewer: Qi Amore, VA |
| I read a little of chapter one and skipped to page 121...and I have to admit I was hoping for more. It's a shame because I was really interested in reading what the brotha has to say, but I just can't do it. The editing IS awful and to read more would probably give me a headache with the mixing up of homonyms, ("She will reap what she SEWS"? I didn't know that was possible! I thought it was "you reap what you SOW"...)and the omissions of pluralization.... One of the commentors stated he should become a motivational speaker, and I'm going to have to agree! Too Bad... |
OLD NEWS FOR OLD PLAYAS
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| Reviewer: OOSA Online Book Club, World Wide Web, USA |
"A Guide to Understanding Men" taught me absolutely nothing. I am very disappointed in author Big Boom for giving this old and known advice. This is the millennium and most of the issues have occurred and are already known - or should be known. I expected this book to teach me some new techniques about men. Offer some new insight. However, it did not, and as a result, it was not good. It refreshed my memory of the past relationships I encountered in my life. I felt like this book should've targeted "chicken-heads" or younger adults, but it was not suitable for women.
Overall, I rate this book a 3. I believe Big Boom could have added more updated news about "THE GAME," however the Game remains the same. I will urge younger adults to read this book because maybe it will make a difference in their lives.
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Don't read this trash
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| Reviewer: Short Young Thing, North Carolina |
I do not recommend this book for two reasons: 1) Big Boom talked about himself too much; and 2) as another reviewer put it "Big Boom said everything he had to say in the title of the book."
I can appreciate a few anecdotes here and there, but this was practically a biography with all the personal womanizing stories he included. And I can only be called a hoe so many times before I walk away from the name-caller, which is exactly what this book is. There are two people in a relationship, so it's not fair to only point the finger at a woman, which is what Big Boom did. This book did nothing to empower women to make better relationship choices. It was a definite waste of time. |
Odd title takes odd title title - Associated Press
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| Reviewer: JohnnyE, College Station, TX USA |
Published Saturday, March 29, 2008 2:15 AM
Odd title takes odd title title
Associated Press
LONDON -- Good advice? Maybe. Oddest book title of 2007 -- that's official.
If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start With Your Legs has won the Diagram Prize for the oddest title of the year, The Bookseller magazine announced Friday.
Big Boom, the apparently pseudonymous author, calls it a "self-help book, written by a man for the benefit of women."
It's a book, he writes, that is "raw, honest and about you," distilling "the sweat off my back, the wrinkles in my forehead from anger and thinking all the time."
The title triumphed in a public vote over runner-up I Was Tortured by the Pygmy Love Queen and the third-place finisher, Cheese Problems Solved.
"The winner, If You Want Closure, makes redundant an entire genre of self-help tomes," said Joel Rickett, deputy editor of The Bookseller. "So effective is the title that you don't even need to read the book itself."
The title joins a pantheon of past winners, including Weeds in a Changing World (1999), The Big Book of Lesbian Horse Stories (2003), Bombproof Your Horse (2004) and The Stray Shopping Carts of Eastern North America: A Guide to Field Identification (2006).
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Awful Book - Harmful To Relationships
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| Reviewer: ., |
How this guy thinks he is magically any different from the "Mr. Wrongs" he talks about, I'll never know.
This book is pointless drivel that proliferates further issues and roles that make relationships so difficult in the first place.
Don't waste your time. |
Nothing new, sort of lame...
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| Reviewer: Tracie Daniel, |
This book is at most, a reformed pimp's true thoughts. At first, the book seemed to be enlightening and a refreshment. After about 20 pages into the book, everything seemed to turn for the worst. Even more, this book went from keeping yourself to how to catch a man. Honestly, there was nothing in this book that I have not heard or seen before. I'm from a family of majority women so we discuss issues all the time. What really moved me was how he tried to charmingly go from how to make a man love you by being a good, virtuous woman to how to dress, look, manipulate, charm, cook, tend to a man. While I did not purchase this book because of self-esteem issues, I feel if this book landed into the wrong hands, women with issues will only become worse.
As an aspiring writer myself, I give him much credit for accomplishing something that I've always wanted to accomplish. I also give him credit for putting his real thoughts into the book (well at least I hope it's his true thoughts). However, he seem to be just a man that is still shallow and possibly unemotional. Afterall, how can he possibly school women on men when the one woman he bore (his first born), won't even reach out to him. For future readers, please do not select this book if you are looking for self-help, but if you need the entertainment, I'd give it a solid B, at best. |
Say WHAT??
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| Reviewer: K. Gordon, North Carolina |
This book is most certainly not what I thought it would be.
It has a good point, a excellent title and I'm sure meaning well for all women but there is just entirely too much babbling going on |
Ladies, A M-U-S-T Read!
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| Reviewer: Debra Fuqua, Jackson, MS United States |
| Ladies, this book is a must read about us from a man's persective. Though the chapters are short, they are to the point. You may have been through a lot of these situations, and once you read this book, you will have a better understanding. I purchased 6 to give to young ladies just starting to acquaint themselves with the game (my 19-year-old daughter included). Get it! Read it! Learn from it! Share it! |
If Your Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start with Your Legs
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| Reviewer: Yolanda Scott, |
| This is a wonderful book if you are ready to learn where you are going wrong in relationships. For those who feel that they have not gone wrong then it is a good guide to stay on track. Big Boom has definitely "given his heart" to the woman. I will go back and use as reference guide. My daughter is going to read it when she gets older. Thank you Big Boom for telling us the truth. |
Big Ups to BOOM!!!
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| Reviewer: She She, Chicago, IL USA |
I have thoroughly enjoyed this entire book. It only took me a couple of days to complete reading it. I found it very informative, funny and filled with emotion and can be enjoyed by women, as well as, men. Again, BIG UPS TO BOOM!!!
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If you want closure in your relationship start with your legs
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| Reviewer: Chances K, Columbia, SC |
| Very interesting. Women get a different perspective from a man point of view. I would recommend. |
A WAKE-UP CALL
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| Reviewer: DIVA STARR, USA |
| THIS WAS A GREAT BOOK AND TOLD THE TRUTH! AS WOMEN WE GET TOO CAUGHT UP IN WHAT A PERSON (MAN) TELL US. WE NEED TO GIVE THIS TYPE OF ENERGY TO OUR COMMON SENSE! |
Well, It's just not my taste.
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| Reviewer: OUTSPOKEN_DIVA, DALLAS, TX |
| The sad part is that there so many people who need advice written in this style. He is very repetitive. The book very dumb-down for my style. Happened to find this in the clearance aisle at Walmart, so I won't say it was a waste of money. The message is good it's just how it was presented that did not impress me. I advise anyone that didn't like this book to loan it to somebody who you know would enjoy it better. Get your $ worth. |
Good Advice
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| Reviewer: T. L. Travis, Portland, OR |
| Found this to be a book that makes you think. Big Boom gives a man's perspective on relationship issues; vastly different from my own preconceived ideas. |
Entertaining
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| Reviewer: S. Morrison, New York, NY USA |
| This book was entertaining as well as informative although I don't agree with all of the authors' views. He was dead on regarding some issues. |
Straight..with no chaser!
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| Reviewer: Ms.Lincy, houston, tx |
| When I first saw the title of this book,It immediately grabbed my attention and I knew I had to read it.And to my surprise Big Boom was on point with alot of things mentioned in this book,In my opinion this was a great read and I learned a lil bit more about relationships,he was straight to the point which made the book even more enjoyable. |
not what i thought
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| Reviewer: brittany, california |
| when i received this book, i was very excited but quickly misled. nowhere on the book or review does it say that it has a religious background/conotation. since i'm not the most religious person out there, i was pretty deceived by what the book had to say. but thats just my opinion, i think if you are more religious then the book is for you, but you'd have to be pretty open about sex and relationships as well. also some of the topics in the book are very outlandish, and have stories you would never even think existed. it made me really question its validity. |
Title of the book is deceiving
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| Reviewer: Tweety, Maryland |
| I was exicted at first about this book when I heard him on a interview, but after reading it the excitment wore off. He really does not go into great dept about any subject concerning men, it is just bits and pieces here and there and He jumps around never really staying on one topic. I do not feel he has any great knowledge for woman, he really did not say too much more than what my father would have told me and my father was not a pimp or abusive to woman. |
Typical sexist propaganda
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| Reviewer: Androgyne, Ypsilanti, MI United States |
| Just another chauvinistic misogynistic predatory male who is will not take responsibility for emotionally abusing and oppressing black women and then by claiming that they are at fault for there own victimization. Blaming the victim is never acceptable and men need to be held responsible for their behavior by themselves, other men, and the culture. Abusive men who subjugate and manipulate women to build themselves up at others expense should never be allowed to shift the responsibility for their emotional cruelty from themselves to their victims. All men and women who endorse this book should be considered potentially sexist, abusive, or at least lacking empathy and compassion for those whose normal, honest, healthy, and selfless intentions for a genuine respectful intimate connection is exploited and pathologized by psychologically predatory individuals. |
If You Want Closure
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| Reviewer: N. James, Houston, TX |
| This book was awesome especially for a single woman like myself. It helped to learn from my past relationships. Most importantly this book has helped me to store information that is viable for future relationships. I thoroughly enjoyed the book and are telling my friends married & single about it. |
I bought it for the title alone!
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| Reviewer: R. Diaz, Seattle, WA USA |
| Hey, ya gotta use your head, not your heart. This ain't the '70s. And to that end, I had to have this book. This guy's spot-on. Guys are geared for sex, which is no big mystery, and while gals dress for it, their ideals are elsewhere. It's time to stop the game and get real. Way to go, Big Boom! |
If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start With Your Legs
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| Reviewer: , |
| I just finished reading this book suggested to me by a man. I think that he feels that, this was his biggest mistake. I found it real easy to read and it keeps your attention. I would suggest this book to any female young or mature to read this one, especially if you are always finding yourself in dead end relationships. The title may throw you off into thinking that he is saying, don't have sex, is essence that is what he is saying, but don't use sex to keep or end a relationship. Make the man come up to your standards. (if you have some, if you don't have any, get some) If you don't respect yourself, the man sure will not. |
Insightful book
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| Reviewer: Nona Bishop Harrison, |
| As a single women who is trying to find a decent african american man. The book offered insight into understanding men and tips to avoid being taken advantage of. |
Can I get my money back
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| Reviewer: brown sugar, |
| I was looking forward to reading this book. I could not find this book in any book store, now I see why. Can I get my money back. |
If You Want Closure in Your Relationship Start with Your Legs
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| Reviewer: L. Myers, Philadelphia, PA |
| This book is excellent with matters that concern many women in the world today. I would reccomended every women to get this book and read it. I have read mine and passed it on to other women to read as well. All of the women say the same thing. "Any women who's a real women has experienced this at one time in there life". I can't wait for the next one. |
Big reviews for Big Boom- and he's fine too ladies
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| Reviewer: T. etherly, |
| It is not the matter that this book was written by a former pimp, but by an experienced male and from the male perspective. This book puts the spotlight on wolves and the ladies who allow themselves to be devoured by them. This book gets our rave reviews because who really wants to be told that they are a sucker plain and simple. Take heed ladies, this is your warning. You can take it with a grain of salt or push on and learn the hard way. You know that you have ran across one or two men who are like the men in this book. Big Boom, I applaud you and the dogs are hating on your right now. The ladies who are in this predicament are in denial and saying, but I love him! Well there are good men out there who can put it on you and still treat you the way you should be treated. Stop settling ladies, we got to do better. |
Boom is a PIMP and he just PIMPED BW AGAIN!
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| Reviewer: Little Storm, Alexandria, Virginia USA |
Most Blk men always come to Blk women with "Fraudulent relationship style"!
They lie about their credit, how many kids they have, status, jobs or other relationships they maybe involved in.
Ive never met a Single Blk man even on a casual note that didnt lie about most things of significance in their lives, thats really sad!
This seems to be "standard protocal"when it comes to Blk men and relationships, their always habitual liars even on the smallest things.
Blk women stop allowing the disrespect and abuse, OPEN YOUR OPTIONS AND MOVE ON! The stats are too high and Blk men have done too little. |
It's ok
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| Reviewer: Blkfiya, Mobile, AL |
| The book was alright, I mean I have read better and I have read worse. It is ok, I mean I read previous reviews and I was not expecting much, anyway. It was something to read. |
Big Boom''If You Want Closure"
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| Reviewer: A. Jonson, ATLANTA |
Ladies, one of most uncommon things about relationships is that we are the one that are usually hurt... Hurt for whatever reason...I like many have a f=grandmother that taught me "The Game" and for what ever reason my relationships still have not worked because I was too involved in myself or just choose the wrong person to sleep with.. Why are so many black woman dying of AIDS, Holding on to the THUG, the Constant CHEATER, we haven't been hearing, listening but not hearing, I am college educated and I still see teachers and doctors not listening to their grandmothers and mothers advice. Forget about this man not having a formal education, some of our best teachers had NO FORMAL EDUCATION!!! It is informative, and there many issues that could be addressed but, that for the next book or the nect person to write. And if you had read this review this long and critiqued my message. Good, because I also chose to misspell words and not use correct langusge to prove thing point.. YOUSTILLDIDN'T GETIT!!
iT'S THE MESSAGE,STOP GETTING HUNG UPON TECNICALITY |
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